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Car & gas From the old forum Posted Aug 30, 2020

help needed for housing

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Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my request.

I'm in need of housing and whilst I've tried all usual avenues the only thing holding me back from being able to have a safe place to live is lack of finances.
I feel that whatever I do its just not good enough and I'm struggling to see a way forward. I've worked hard and tried to save when I was able to and am very independent so asking for help from strangers is not normal for me. I've always found a solution unfortunately I can't find one for being able to afford to move. I don't have friends or family who can help and because I'm a single person and working a part time job I don't get much help. I've recently had health issues which means I've had to have time off work (had tohave surgery so wasn't a choice). A bit of back story: I was abused from a young age and the abuser was a close family member, other family turned a blind eye and the church I was part of and family are still part of didn't acknowledge it either. I have recently been dealing with this and the issues surrounding this and feel I'm more in a better place mentally and emotionally.what is difficult is that I still live in the same house and town where this took place and feel unless I'm able to have a place to call my own and be away from these people I'm not going be able to go through the next layer of healing and be totally free as i still have see my abuser as they are family and my family think nothing of it to have him over even tho I have explained how that affects me they don't care. Because of the abuse I didn't do well at school but have worked hard since at getting qualifications along side working (most of the money I was earning went on paying for my education and rent to family .. yes nothing is free I've always had to pay my way)I have helped out friends financially when i was able and helped out others in any way able as I'm naturally a caring kind person who likes to help. Unfortunately this doesn't seem to work the other way round. So i find myself here hoping there are some kind people who would be willing to help me.
I would like to set up my own childminding business so equally need my own place for this.
Any help is gratefully received.

Thank you so much.

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thecreativenanny · Sep 2, 2020

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