Can you please help me save our home?

To the wonderful people reading this,

Posting in the hope that you could help me.

My husband of over 25 years fell for a romance scam online and has not only borrowed a lot of money (refinanced our house) but also borrowed more from a neighbor all without telling me. He failed to pay our mortgage since October 2025 so we are facing foreclosure or I have to agree to sell our home which I don’t want to do because I don’t have anywhere else to go plus with a sale there will be nothing left over as far as any kind of profit. 

My husband has since left to "make himself happy".

I have been left handicapped and in severe non stop pain for over 20 years now because a Dr. at the Hospital I went to deliver our son knew "what was best for me" even though I tried to leave I was pretty much forced into a delivery room telling me I would be the worst mother of all times if I left and not think of the baby. So they almost killed me in the process (damaged my sciatic nerve during the epidural and tore the soleus muscle in my calf) and then tried to hide all that. I am only alive today because the next time a Dr. told me what to do I did not listen and refused to not have them check out what almost turned into a lethal blood clot (they put my leg in a booth which then led to the blood clot and a permanently damaged femoral vein on top of everything else, all in the same - right- leg). I tried for over 16 years to get a diagnosis to perhaps recover some of the huge amounts of money we lost to Dr.´s and what not´s in this time. I got a diagnosis- overseas- in 2011 but when I returned to the US nobody wanted to confirm it. But I got a diagnosis (the same one I got overseas) on December 23, 2020.

However, this does not help with my nonstop pain so I am a bit limited on the kind of jobs I can do, sometimes I cannot even drive a car or get down a flight of stairs, I have trouble standing and sometimes walking. Plus I am hearing impaired wich doesn’t help with finding jobs. I do not have any close relatives or friends in the area that I can ask for help so I am writing this in the hope that perhaps someone reading this can help me so I can stay here. The house is one level so I have no stairs to worry about and I can get around pretty good. In advance thank you for reading this and hopefully helping me so that I do not end up handicapped and homeless. God Bless You.